Random ThoughtsI sometimes have such random thoughts running through my puny brains, heh!
My friend's sister just celebrated her baby's full moon. I casually asked my friend if her sister was breast feeding. She said no, and that the baby is now on formula because her sister said she has no milk to provide.
No milk? Turns out, her sister had thought she had not enough milk to breast feed her child, so she turned to formula.
When I think of it, I think it's quite sad that many new mothers are not fully educated about the benefits of breast feeding. And that their chances of breast feeding their child is further dampened by the words of many around her. Having no support and thorough understanding, naturally the new mother would come to believe she cannot produce enough milk for the baby, hence turn to milk powders.
Quite sad, isn't it? Just when so many doctors urge new mothers to breast feed, many are turned away all because they didn't try long enough to see things through.
I'm not a mother myself yet, but I have done some reading on this. Breast milk is in fact, the best you can give your child. No formula can replace the goodness in breast milk. And the production of breast milk, is very much dependent on the demand & supply chain. The higher the demand, the more your supply. The first few tries is probably the most daunting (as some new mothers have shared with me). That's because during the initial tries, all the baby gets is the
colostrum; Which is in fact, high in carbohydrates, protein, and antibodies and low in fat.
And it's due to the daunting first tries, which convinces a lot of new mothers to believe, they don't have enough breast milk.
"Why so little milk?!"...
"Am I not producing enough?!"...
"Where's the milk?!"...
"Is it because my breasts are too small?!"Probably the new mothers have this idea that breast milk should be abundant the moment the baby is born. This is not really the case. From what I understand, the new mother has to continuously feed the baby, as the baby's stimulation will encourage breast milk to be produced. No stimulation, no demand, hence no supply. This is where breast pumps come in handy too, as it artificially stimulates the breasts to produce more milk, if your baby is not around (in daycare while you're at work etc).
I just think a lot of mothers out there, are being told inaccurate facts. I've heard a few times, the older women telling the new mothers
"Aiya, you don't have enough milk to the baby la! Give milk powder la!". Such words to a new mother are in fact, very discouraging. A new mother would need all the encouragement she deserves when breast feeding, not cynical words as above. Breast feeding not only helps the new mother bond with her child, she's also providing the child with the best possible nutrients and antibodies. Plus breast feeding burns calories babeh!!!
Perhaps some women also don't make it a point to do some extra research on the subject, expecting everything to fall into place naturally. After all, having a child is a natural progress, so why shouldn't breast milk be? Unless the mother herself is on medication, I think it would be a great thing for mothers to breast feed their babies.
Now if only more women give breast feeding a go. You can jolly well save yourself a hefty amount from all those expensive formulas!!!!